Home Business Tips – Are You Waiting For Perfection?
Are you waiting for circumstances to be perfect before you take the plunge into your home business? You could be waiting a very long time, because what is perfection right now may not be in a week, a month or a year.
Changing on the outside is not the solution, however changing on the inside will enable you to see more of the perfection in yourself and in others. Three habits you can adopt right now are:
1) be happy now
2) chose what you want to do next
3) start working towards it
Put things into perspective, ask yourself “in 5 years from now how will I feel about this?” You can use that perspective now and skip all the part where you feel bad. Earlier this year my dog Veddar died. At first I had a terrible time because I missed her so very much, I was having my own little pity party. Then I remembered hearing about this perspective on a CD! Once I switched my thoughts from “poor me” to what a good dog Veddar had been I was able to skip a large part of “feeling bad”. Don’t get me wrong I still do have the feelings come up but I am able to see them from the 5 year perspective which has been very healing.
One of the fundamental laws in psychology is; you get more of what you focus on. One of the simple ways to change your focus is through the questions you ask yourself. A good one to ask yourself when things are “going off the rail” is:
“How can I turn this into something good?”When you are stuck in victim mode, that is what you focus on, therefore you will get more. For every outcome that you want there is a way of thinking and acting that will get it for you. Your job is to find out what it is that you want and then be flexible on how to make it happen.
People believe they are no good at creating things only because they are not aware of what they are focusing on. What you have been focusing on is what you have right now. The first step is to recognize your own thinking, most of us just let the thoughts pass through our head like a train going past us on the track. When you stop some of those thoughts and take a look you will recognize “victim” thoughts, we all have them. Many people believe world dangerous so they look for danger, that goes back to the fundamental law in psychology, you get more of what you focus on. Keep thinking about danger and it will keep being reinforced in your life.
Changing from the inside out is the key because it is what you do with the thoughts that determine your results.
The brain is neutral, when you ask positive questions the brain has no other job but to come up with answers to your question(s). Get clear about what you want and then using the power of repetition to make it happen. We make kids do it to learn new tasks and ideas, why do we stop as adults? Repetition is very powerful!
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August 19th, 2009 at 8:38 pm
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August 20th, 2009 at 1:03 pm
What an awesome article.So much truth to this.
August 21st, 2009 at 8:20 pm
Many thanks Randy, I write about 5 articles per week
September 3rd, 2009 at 10:10 pm
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